Cherry. Just trying to get on with life

[Cherry]

Thanks surfer, and thanks for the lighthearted stance! I am in no way some crazed woman leaping on whatever man comes my way!

Grl, thank you too. Yes I do have an L, but thinks have pretty much been on standby as I don't want to push the D. I do have the option to file on him as he seems to have stopped, but that would mean I have to foot the bill. I have mentioned validation to her, but she is a very strong minded woman, and she is beyond angry that he could even suggest such a thing. I've offered to step away if she felt I was getting in the way of their relationship, but she won't have any of it. She has strong views that his suicide cries where a touch of boy who cried wolf.

He really does come across lost. But this is none of my doing. I don't contact him or bother with him in any way. He's got what he wanted. I think he is the type of wayward who will never admit to their wrong doings.

Thank you all for stopping by with your words of support. Being such a sensitive topic, it's not one I wish to voice to people I know, it really helps to be able to open up here. I've had a restful evening, surfer- a face mask just for you. This is not the kind of stress a 7 month pregnant woman needs.