Just popping in to say I love that chart and, having considered it for a bit and thought back to various conversations with STBXH ... spot freaking on....
Also, Trumpet, congrats on your anniversary. That's no small accomplishment, especially as you were going through the worst of it from the dates on your sig. I know it's a day at a time kind of thing, but well done for stringing so many together!
I'm no expert. Don't know what to tell ya. My stbxh and I are strictly NC unless it's about S or $, as in "deposited $X for Y in account." "Thx" kind of thing. It's also holiday time so the wacko is usually either in full force or they disappear. Just keep the focus on you and your recovery, as you have been. Sounds like you are doing great! xo
M 20+ T25+ S ~15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16
"Someone I loved once gave me A box full of darkness. It took me years to understand, That this too, was a gift." ~ Mary Oliver
