Help - boundaries. Am I doing th ewrong thing?

[Woke_Up]

Please stay in the MBR.

It is not you who is wayward.

Once back in that MBR, cling to it like a limpet and don't let go. Chances like this don't come very often.

Reversing a vasectomy? And WW knows she is Wayward!

Sometimes these disclosures take my breath away.

Please, please please keep those buttons out of pressing reach. I can not emphasise enough how waywards press buttons to get reactions they can use.

Your WW has been gaslighting you and knows exactly which buttons, in which order to get the reaction she might like to suit her purpose. That likely means no alcohol for you especially if you enforce boundaries.

Now is the time to be Mr Super Cool efficient business. .

V

Vanilla - thanks for your support. It's odd that you mention gas lighting as that is what she accused me of doing to her.

Alcohol isn't an issue, I barely touch it since my daughter was born.

I'm working on remaining calm, what I'm finding difficult is that when I'm trying to remain distant and detached, it stimulates an argument because she knows I am acting differently and thinks I am doing it to get at her rather than doing it for myself.