Help - boundaries. Am I doing th ewrong thing?

[Woke_Up]

Well, a quick follow up. I am sleeping in the MBR tonight as planned to make room for our guest.

WW has been cordial and pleasant, and currently seems to be having a clear and calm moment. She just asked me to send her some more links to help her with 'her insanity' as she put it. I have previously sent her some info on EA's and limerence.

Does anyone know of any good resources for those who are in an EA and want help? I did say to her that it wouldn't help when it came from me, but she responded saying she just wanted links.

However, seeing the effect yesterday and last night had on her, when she couldn't contact the EAP easily, I am sure she isnt ready to take the first steps yet, which is cutting all contact. But I do take it as a positive, with no expectations of anything coming from it at this stage.

She also suffers from anxiety and sometimes depression and last time she was reading some info, it was making her anxiety worse. I do see a link between her anxiety and letting this EA develop, but I know that doesn't excuse it.

Thank you all for your kind words and advice - it means more than I can express.