(((Cherry))) My intital thought when reading this, is honestly who cares what his reason is for saying it--MLC, depression, fog, guilt, deep seeded anger, etc--but more so that he said it. This behavior is egregious, and no matter what the reason/excuse is, he is responsible for his words and actions.
It has been a couple years of this now and I can't help but wonder what your bottom line is? I know you want your M and family intact. I know it is sooo hard to let go of that. And I'm sorry. It's so hard.
I also wonder at what point enough is enough? You deserve a man that loves you, respects you, and values you for the beautiful person that you are. Your children also deserve to see their mum cherished that way.
I am glad you are angry. Hold on tight to whatever projects you and your heart. Anger is okay and should not be overlooked or pushed aside. You do not need to act on it, but you must allow for it.
Blu
“Forgiveness liberates the soul. It removes fear. That is why it is such a powerful weapon.” – Nelson Mandela
