Sorry to hear your news. My W has made up her mind on D too and will be going through the legal process in the new year. DB hasn't saved my M yet but it's helped me to see and hear my W better and helped me to focus on my issues, the ones in my control. Be strong. You are not alone.
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving