2tours, as always you sound very thoughtful and aware. Have fun at the concert! I have been asked out thrice since BD, each time was certainly not what you are describing. The first guy was a lonely alcoholic, so no right there! I did love his date idea though: Drive to the beach and have brunch at a little cafe after a walk. The second was a younger possibly player type, possibly cougaring. I think he just wanted some s-e-x (hm, probably should have taken him up on that one). The third guy, again, single and came off as super-lonely, wanting a GF, something I am in no way capable of being. I certainly don't think any of these gentlemen were sad LBS's!
me 42 H 32 T 7yr M 6yr BD 5/2016 ILYBNILWY Separated 7/2016