Haven't posted in awhile. My marriage is effectively over. We had our mediation session on Wednesday and we essentially agreed on pretty much everything. I got everything I wanted: 50/50 custody, the house,and no spousal support. No cause for celebration but this will make my life a bit easier going forward.
A bit of a post-mortem involving DBing. In my case, it didn't work. My wife is incredibly stubborn. She had made up her mind about our marriage and there wasn't anyone or anything that was going to change her mind. She needs to be on her own and I believe that DBing might have hastened her soon to be exit. That's not a bad thing. This was the eventual conclusion so the sooner it's over, the sooner I can being to heal.
Keep at it everyone. Keep fighting. If anything, you know you did all you can to save your marriage.
