Cadet is spot on

And you do what you do for YOU, the effects on your WW are largely a sidebar.

Becoming the best you can be for you and as a dad is so special, it is that which is always going to be a winner.

Detaching means that you do this irrespective of the effect on your M, fine if it improves, fine if it does not.

You and you as a dad will always be a winner when you plough maximum efforts into you.

It's a rough time, so big hugs

V

Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW