Hi 2tours,
I'll let the vets opine about your dating. I believe the general principal is no one should not, it clouds things, doesn't help situation, etc.

I've been thinking about it as well, in part because my IC brings it up, asks me things like, what kind of partner do you envision in the future?
That's hard to hear, but I see no harm in having the conversation about what to do if H never comes back. I mean, he seems gone...
So in my thinking, another LBS to talk to sounds really nice, as opposed to someone ready for more. But I am not going to do anything as of now in terms of dating. I think its interesting to hear what your therapist has to say about these things, as always.


me 42 H 32
T 7yr
M 6yr
BD 5/2016 ILYBNILWY
Separated 7/2016