XW showing signs or just MLC script

[Irish M]

Hi bttrfy

D14 is doing ok. I did get the results back from her tests. Blood work shows everything is fine.

MRI showed something different. She has a cyst on her brain :-(

I am seeing a specialist with her as soon as they can fit us in. This wasn't the news i was expecting. They said cyst and not tumor so that is good. The cyst however is causing pressure and it explains her symptoms.

I updated XW ( she never messaged me to find out how D14 is this whole time. Even after I told her that she needed the MRI. I mean, this is a brain scan not a cavity in her tooth.

I know , I know.. XW can't handle more than her makeup in the morning and maybe sugar in her coffee. But it makes me sick to my stomach.


I messaged XW once I got off with the doctor. A clear message saying that the MRI showed a cyst and a specialist will have to look at the scan to determine if they need to operate or not.

Did i get an answer from XW... Nope. message said read but no response. I know.. don't expect too much from her..

So I added a message because I was fuming and needed to let off some steam. why not on her.

I tell her she makes me sick to my stomach, that her D14 is not well and may need surgery. That she has not once asked me or them how they were doing in all this. Especially D14 who's health is begin looked at. How selfish she is and that she forgot all about what we founded our family on was Kids first. Told her to go to hell.

She replies.

The girls want nothing to do with me. I let you guys live your life.


ugggggghhhh I won't reply. Just needed to vent.

I sat down with D14 and explained everything. She is strong and I explained the difference between a tumor and a cyst. That many people are born with cysts, some develop them and others have them without even knowing. She is good and said to me. Then nothing to worry about.

I have faith this will all be nothing and even if she needs to drain the fluid from the cyst. It needs to be done and we move forward.

have a good weekend everyone. My plans to visit the city xmas lights still goes on. The girls need to do some more shopping and Sunday a horse ride for me and D16

Irish