Thanks Sandi! I always value and appreciate your perspective. I am and plan to continue applying db principles in whatever I do. I don't have any proof that there is still contact but like you I don't think it looks good. I know that it sounds (and is) weak but taking the phone away is like taking away her car as it is a tool. I will think about it more. Have a good weekend.
- m and ww in 30s - s4 - m 11 yrs, t12 -ilybinilwy ~5/16 + request for OM - bd 7/16, confirm ea and strongly suspected pa - 9/16 ww claimed to have broken contact with om