She was going to move out to the spare room, but guilted me due to her back problems, etc. She even ordered a new bed, which I am now in :-/ Now she says she is claiming the MBR as I have claimed the internet by blocking Skype.
She told you to jump and you asked how high? Is that the normal way things have gone in your relationship?
Quite often it has been, I'm afraid. It's not that I don't defend my corner or argue, it's just that I usually lose (sometime just for the peace), or quite often realise I am arguing for the sake of it.
Now the issue is do I move back in? It will no doubt be taken as a confrontational tactic. TBH, none of my things are in there anyway, we had too much stuff for 1 bedroom so mine went in the spare and hers in the main even when we both were in there. I know, I sound like I'm making excuses already, just at this stage moving back in there seems more symbolic than anything else. I tend to second guess myself a lot, not a great trait.
I am not going to leave the house.
Hello Woke_up,
I'm so sorry for the situation you are in.
Yes, don't leave the house. You are questioning how to move back into the MBR without being confrontational. Let a DB Coach help you with that and many other things you described.
Knowing what to do and what not to do at this point is crucial. Feel free to give me a call at 303-444-7004 to discuss how we can best help you determine what to do next.
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