You are right, her words are meaningless right now and correct that it isn't your place to tell her anymore!! :-). Do you have any idea when she will find out about it? Has he started the process?
You are doing great!!! Hope you have great weekend!
W:42 M:48 T:9 yrs M:1yr BD: Feb 2016 EA Confirmed: Feb 2016/PA July 2016 D: Feb 2017