Thank you for the quick response. I will keep on with the DR book - I started this morning.

Thanks for the threads to review - I will read. Detachment is hard. I have told her already that I am willing to fight for our R.

GAL is the hardest bit for me - I actually need to make a plan. My work commute means I am get up at 5 and get home at 7:30, then put my daughter to bed, read to her, then eat - then the day is done. I guess I need to make more of weekends now.

I've been working on keeping physically fit, just little and often. Stress related weight loss helped a bit, I guess - this EA thing put me off my appetite for a while. My WW even commented that I was looking more muscular lately.

I'll be back no doubt once I have done a bit more reading.

Thanks again


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Me: 47 WW: 35
SS: 17 D: 5
T: 7 yrs Engaged: 2 yrs
OEA confirmed: August 17 2016 ongoing since April 2016.
OEA continues (with occasional breaks)
BD2 - W says will visit OM in Jan 18