Cherry. Just trying to get on with life

[Painter]

Cherry, I'm just stopping by with some (((hugs))) and well wishes. I wish I could be there for you, too.

[Vanilla]

Me too

V

[roist]

Glad to read you are staying strong despite a very difficult situation. Best wishes

[JksD]

(((Cherry)))


Have very little expectations of your h.

How are the logistics going to be like when baby comes out? Have you worked that out?

[PsySara]

Hey sister, how's it hanging?

[Surfer]

Just dropping by to say hello.

I am hoping you are just having a cosy time of it rather than stressing at the moment.

Surfer.

[JksD]

Hope all is well with you, Cherry!

[Cherry]

Hello all, thanks for stopping by! I've been so busy of late. Work, GAL, parenting, and then by the time i get into bed, the third trimester fatigue has set in! Nothing much to journal really. I've spent a lot of time with S and having fun, sometimes it isn't the easiest, and I do hurt a little- but I keep moving on forwards!

Seen wh once this week, it was alright. He was very much his depressive self, he asked how I was getting on, when I asked him how he was, he replied "yeah I'm okay all things considered". I am trying not to overthink about this, I bit my tongue to point out that this was all what he wanted! He spoke a little, but seemed a little reluctant to actually look at me, maybe it was because I was wearing a short-ish nightie. But I was light and upbeat and friendly towards him, we seem to be in a bit of a holding pattern, still haven't heard anything about the divorce, I'm not questioning it, because it isn't what I wanted!

I'll try and swing by tomorrow and visit everyone's threads and check up on you guys!

[Cherry]

Going to keep this latest post brief as I'm in shock. I found out that wh has told his mum that at some point in our m, I raped him. She absolutely doesn't believe him, he previously told her that I had been sleeping with someone else when pregnant with S (while on bed rest and she was looking after me). I guess he made one lie and had to pull something else out. I don't know what to say or think be cause this has really knocked me and angered me to the point where I don't want to ever see his face.

[PsySara]

He's such an @sshole! This is from the cheater's manual, I swear. They like to paint themselves as the victim and even will lie to have people see they are "justified" for wrecking their families. How's does one woman rape a male (who isn't inebriated?)