MLH-- I was able to snoop and then have my data in place, all of the data I needed to let her know that I knew...
Not sure if you need to snoop anymore... You have the data you need. Right?
I have my data saved for reference. I was keeping a log book but as I began getting more depressed I stopped. I began taking medication and started working on myself vs putting all efforts into that log book. I have stopped being as snoopy. I think she has made some financial decisions That wouldn't be beneficial to our marriage.
