Glad you have procedure done. Horrible that you had to go through this : (
Okay, not idea with the IC diagnosis. It may be incorrect however. Have you ever seen him empathise? I bet you have many times. Try not to get down about it. It may. Be that he has elevated pointers - so what. Many that score high on the psychopath scale are actually pretty normally functioning people - often high achievers. Yes, no Mother Terrasa - but not 'bad' people. They are just different. If you both know he finds it hard to empathise, it might be good to talk about. Lots Of men are like this BTW. I am sure you have watched 'it's not about the nail'. Perhaps show it to you H if the time is right?
Keep that chin up.
Surfer.
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