It gets crazier. She wants you to continue loving her......and actually be happy for her in her new relationship/affair. Her thinking is like, "Can we all just be good friends"? She probably won't tell you those blunt words
This is exactly what my W says to me.
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving