Good point. My W recently hinted at wanting some big-ticket home improvement done and I thought, What???

Anyway, my guess is that Sara's WH enjoys buying expensive things (cars, sailboats), so for him it's about the thrill of buying a big house, not about what it means for Sara and the kids.


Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final