Martial arts would let you punch someone (sparring partner) or a bag instead of a wall...
Does your WH explain what his thinking is about a new house? Most normal people would not think of buying a house together with a spouse you want to divorce.
Me: 50, MLC/WW 45 Young kids Nov 2015: BD1 Apr 2016: BD2 Jan 2017: W filed Feb 2017: D final