I could not wait once I learned of someone and my wife texting all hours of the. Ifht. I even called the number To only hear a guy pick Up. I was pissed! I know now I should have reacted differently and see how it played out but I am not in an open relationship. I did all the. As things, got intimate her phone and Facebook. Saw more uncomfortable things. Now she doesn't trust me because of me snooping. I now know snooping is the worst.