a wife who doesn't send erotic emails to another man is a boundary of mine.
So, she is doing this now. Why would you let a month go by before you address it if it is YOUR BOUNDARY?
A weak boundary isnt really a boundary....
So what would you do to protect yourself from this behavior? How does having her do more housework relate to this boundary?
I'm waiting a month because I'm a mess inside and I'm trying to find out how to enforce a boundary that I just discovered.
housework does not relate to this boundary so it might not be the right choice.
I won't sugar coat it. I don't know how to protect myself from this violation yet. I'm trying to figure it out now.
My next thought about this is having her leave our bedroom and/or no more bankrolling her art business. Both of these things are related to OM. she is tying in her business with him as she uses him for promotional purposes and she is making art for him.
