Westo, I totally agree with you! I am still rather new at this as BD was 10/1, but being that this is my 2nd M and the first involved my S when he was 1, I know that we will find ourselves and we will find happiness. I am still holding the rope that my WS will get through MLC and we can work it out, but I am not living for that. I have the whole world to discover and you know what I've found.....I like the freedom I have right now to do as I please without anyone else's in put. I like the fact that out of all of these crazy stories, there is a great collection of LBS that will make even better partners for someone out there...even someone other than their WAS/WS.
So we sit in a pretty good place, when we decide to move forward and live our lives for ourselves. So embrace your freedom, know that out there is someone who will love you more and will make you their first choice and you will love yourself even more.
And you know what.....maybe your H will see what's happening and respond, but either way, you will get to chose what you want!
M52 W52 M17 T20 SS 23 from my 1st M Lives on his own BD 10/01/16 Trial Sep 12/01/16