Well I think yesterday we got he final parenting plan hashed out. She was proposing that she get S13 every Easter, 4th of July, and Christmas day. It was so short sighted of her, it proves that she is still "in the weeds" a bit. I fired back and suggested that the holidays just oscillate and she agreed...phew I am glad that is over with. I still haven't seen her financials she is waiting till the last minute I guess which makes me feel like this whole thing is just an inconvenience to her. Every day I feel happier that I am not in her grasp, I realized how much she controlled my actions and emotions. It stinks to think that she was so controlling over my actions and to learn of the things she was doing behind my back. UGH! I cant wait for the final day to know what I will get out of the D so I can plan, budget and look to my new future.
M 21 years XW 43yo, me 41 yo S13 BD March 2016 - she asked me to patient... End of June - I started the D process. D final 2/23/17 "He who forgets will be destined to remember" Eddie Vedder
