Carrying on is the hard part some days!! That void of not having my best friend to talk to. Going to bed and waking up alone. Is still find myself reaching on her side of the bed to cuddle and then realizing she's not there...
They say it takes time for things like that to fade. Maybe they are right, all I know is that I know every single nook and cranny and all in between in my ceiling.
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We haven't talked or text in over a week. She's all business. Just the one email yeasterday about splitting up the phones and gifts. I gave her a direct answer on how she can handle the phone and told her that I want to get through the bigger issues (bank accounts) before we worry about small issues like wedding gifts. I did talk to my attorney and he said just to wait till she files. I've done everything that I can up to this point by freezing the joint savings and joint credit cards. I asked her to take her name off since they were mine before we married. We will see. I guess I'm hoping that agreeing with some of this will make her think a little... long shot I know
I have to talk with mine every day, but its only about the kids - when she wants to Skype with them. Otherwise, we don't talk. Asking her to take her name off was a good idea - but maybe as your lawyer said, wait until she files. I like the idea of freezing the account. Mine had a little used account that she didn't remember me being part of and she moved money into that. Busted.
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Going to try to do a little duck hunting this weekend now that winter has arrived. I'm having good days then bad days. Guess that will happen for a long time. Spent 4 years with her and now she acts like I'm dead to her. Part of me wants to call or text but I think that will be a setback....?
Hope they are flying for you! Its been years since I did any duck hunting. Unfortunately, they all act like we are dead to them. Know something? Part of me also wants to call or text mine. But don't do it. You do it because you miss her and hope it will spark something...some say that it will spark resentment. That may be. But what good would it do?
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
