Originally Posted By: Lex23
Originally Posted By: darknes
Originally Posted By: Lex23
I think I need this deadline because otherwise I will let time slip by and do nothing.


So what exactly are you thinking of doing?

I'll tell you how the conversation will go:
Lex - I know about all of the messaging with celebrity. You have to stop this.
W - I hate you. There is no marriage. I'm going to do what I want.

Now what?

I'm not sure what to threaten

Youre not really doing this right. Why do you think YOU can control HER? She doesnt want to work on the marriage, se doesnt have your best interest at heart. Then why do you think you can "make her do more housework?"

If you want to confront her about the affair, then fine. But you need to be prepared for the fallout. You can evict her from the MBR, but what if she refuses? You can "make" her do more housework, but what if she doesnt?

What are YOUR boundaries?

Also, waiting a month is pretty weak. I wouldnt confront her until youre ready. But waiting until January seems kind of arbitrary.