pregnant and uncertain about the future

[fightin]

I don't have much advice at this time other than to trust your instincts. Confronting him and pressure will just push him away further, but if you're not already doing this maybe only contacting him about the baby and putting some distance between the two of you from your side would be enough for him to feel the emptiness without you. I don't know for sure, but definitely don't push or pressure.

I have depression and anxiety as well, now treated, but wasn't before I got my BD. Sometimes we retreat into a dark place and it takes a lot to get back out of that hole. He may be feeling overwhelmed by all these changes ahead (the move, the baby, etc.) even though previously he was excited about them all. Often times just a moment of feeling overwhelmed is all it takes to send someone in a downward spiral. If he's not getting it treated through meds or a therapist then it could be a while before he finds his way out of it and unfortunately there isn't anything you can do about it other than be supportive if he opens up to you about it.

My heart goes out to you. You have a major life changing event going on with your new baby and going through it alone is enough, but to go through it alone when you expected to have a partner would be extremely hard. Try to stay strong, your babies need you!