How can someone who loveed me now want to destroy me?? I'm hurt and stressed out. Part of me wants to just give up because I'm seeing the true person she really is and the other part is telling me she's not herself right now.
That is a question that every single one of us have asked on here. Guaranteed. Given that you weren't married that long, maybe her true colors are starting to show through. In my case, my ex hid hers for almost 10 years. I'm not going into all my details and hijack your thread as it's all in mine, but she left out a huge thing from her past.
I'm not sure what makes some hide their stuff from us. In some ways, its really sad knowing that they don't think enough or are too scared or whatever...
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I don't see her ever changing how she feels at this point....
She may or may not. The unfortunate thing is that there isn't anything we can do about our SOs. Nothing. And that is a very hard pill to swallow. In some aspect, we are supposed to carry on as if they suddenly disappeared.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
