I would add also that he has problems with depression and anxiety that aren't currently being treated. He's promised to see a doctor as soon as he can - January, when his new insurance kicks in.

Me: 36
Ex-H: 36
Met/friends 9/2000
Fling 5/2002-8/2002
R: 2/2005
M: 8/2/2008
Ex-H online A: 11/2009 (discovered)
Ex-H filed 8/1/2014
D final 10/2015

DS: 19 (mine)
DD: 7 (with Ex-H)
DD: 2 (mine)