No, I am not ok with this. But I really have no control of this. I am trying to wait it out and hope she gets out of the fog. I have set up some boundaries like telling her I will not do Christmas activities with her that I will do my family stuff alone and she will do her stuff alone as long as there is still contact with him. It has involved our kids as well. He coaches one of our kids in baseball and I have told my wife our son will have to quit. She said I am taking it out on our son and it isn't his fault and I should let him play and that she wouldn't talk to him at the games. I said no, he will not play baseball with the guy that potentially has ruined our marriage. What else am I supposed to do if she refuses to stop it. I want to make this work, so I am waiting. I can't force her out of the house.
Me:39 WW: 39 Kids: 11,8,4 Married: 15 years Together 17 years PA discovered November 2016 Separated living in same house - ended 1/2017 Separated, kids in house, taking turns staying in house
