That's for sure. I told her after she didn't come home that last night that I didn't care if she hurts me, I am a big boy. But she is hurting our kids and they will never forget that. Going out all the time and not coming home
Are you OK with this? It seems that you haven't said stop or else. As others have said on here, she is really eating her cake because you are giving her the impression that you don't care if she is seeing someone else while she is married to you.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.