That's for sure. I told her after she didn't come home that last night that I didn't care if she hurts me, I am a big boy. But she is hurting our kids and they will never forget that. Going out all the time and not coming home, the kids notice and are wondering where there mom is and why she is not home when they wake up. She seems to understand that as she said she was sorry and she knows she is hurting the kids. But actions speak louder than words and she continues to talk to him and I am sure seeing him behind my back. She is a stay at home mom and has a lot of time on her hands. Like people say, it's and addiction and she is addicted and can't control it.


Me:39
WW: 39
Kids: 11,8,4
Married: 15 years
Together 17 years
PA discovered November 2016
Separated living in same house - ended 1/2017
Separated, kids in house, taking turns staying in house