I think everyone has said something that resonated with me today... just needed to get some perspective about it!
I do think I was too 'goal' oriented... but I dreadfully hate being 'left in the lurch'! I guess the goal for me is an orgasm... can you blame me?!
I do think now that I was perhaps a bit preocupied about the fact that it had to be 'just so' for us both, and that may have come (pardon the pun!) into play! I do recall my concentration being off at times... I also rushed into the 'main event' too quickly... didn't give myself time to 'warm up'. If Jupiter is in the right orbit, and the stars are lined up just so, it's a piece of cake. Otherwise, it takes some work!!!
I think that after looking at it again, I would definitely try for a position change next time. I'm also going to spring for some good lubricant, and I'm going to give myself more time to relax and enjoy... foreplay would probably have solved some of the problem. I know that if I'm already feeling like I'm going to explode from the foreplay, the rest is a piece of cake.
