I think I need this deadline because otherwise I will let time slip by and do nothing.
So what exactly are you thinking of doing?
I'll tell you how the conversation will go: Lex - I know about all of the messaging with celebrity. You have to stop this. W - I hate you. There is no marriage. I'm going to do what I want.
Now what?
read my post above. that is what I am preparing myself for. the 2 main problems are
-she will use my accidentally getting her pregnant to dismiss any complaint
-I'm not sure what to threaten
If I had to do it today then I think if she refused to stop I could have her leave our bedroom. I thought this might be to harsh but then again maybe not. Another thing I am considering is that I could have her take over cleaning and cooking and washing the kids. Letting her know that if she wanted to be my roommate then she has to act like one. I will let her know that I can't accept 2nd best anymore and that I want to work on a real relationship together.
