Well, what's he talking about? The kids? In that case, yes, "we" would drive me batty. However, if he were talking about the kids and he said "we" referring to him and I, I would also object. He gave up the chance to be "we" with me.

Would you take him back if he showed up on your doorstep with champagne and roses? If not, then I have found it helpful to identify my anger and give it its say.

If you WOULD, then I think you should sit with that too...

Hugs!!


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.