Best wishes.Sorry i have no words that will help.

Your H is going away during the time his parents are staying with you? Did I understand that right?

Again best wishes


R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together