I am doing better every day with being happy for myself and by myself, but am I suppose to not love her anymore? Am I suppose to not think about her at all?
I cant believe you have not heart dechameleonify before
Ah yes, the love conundrum... The best way of thinking of it, is to shelve your love. Yes, just put it in a box and stick it on a shelf for the time being. At this point in time, your "love" will just hinder your progress. You, my friend, are a fixer, always have. But now is the time you have to just let your W be. Be what she wants, where she wants. If she wants to be a purple unicorn in Narnia, you have to let her. You can't control her. And also the best way for her to miss you is to see you doing just great without her, and not being like a sad puppy every time she sees you.
