That is what I tried to rationalize with her at the beginning of all of this...now I know that was the wrong thing to do, but she said that logistics were no reason to stay together. Again, not realizing I was doing wrong, I followed with no, but 25 years of a loving and caring relationship is...it obviously had the wrong effect.

I'm learning more daily of the struggle. It is definitely not pretty. I am amazed that so many ppl stand for such a long time. I also feel blessed by the number of ppl that share on this board so we can all learn and grow.

I truly love her and I really believe that "we" are worth it. I promise to try my hardest for as long as I can.


Me 49 W46
T25 M22
S22 D18 S13
W had EA Apr-Jul 2016
Dropped Bomb 7/9/16
ILYBINILWYA
HER DIVORCE IS FINAL...8/18/17
Dropping the rope to SURVIVE & THRIVE!!!