Talking to her about finances is like talking to a 5 year old. It is crazy because she has always done our bill paying, but I guess she has slipped off of the deep end. She honestly doesn't realize how having 2 households for the time being is going to affect every part of our lives. Not to mention how divorce will as far as $$$ is concerned either.

I think my 10 yo has a better grasp of money at this point.

Is it that they really revert back to a time when they were footloose and fancy free or care free or what? She has always been the typical blonde in the room, but it seems like she is just out in left field right now. I am totally stumped. I just want to make sure I stay one step ahead of the $$$. We have separate accounts as well as one joint account that co-bills get paid from...challenging. Any advice would be welcome.


Me 49 W46
T25 M22
S22 D18 S13
W had EA Apr-Jul 2016
Dropped Bomb 7/9/16
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HER DIVORCE IS FINAL...8/18/17
Dropping the rope to SURVIVE & THRIVE!!!