I went ahead and told her that this still isn't what I want, but that I if she chooses divorce then I respect her decision. She then replied with "You still want to wait?" After some back and forth it seems she started the process because she thinks I hate her. If I'm in anyway short with her or don't act super friendly via text then she says I'm hateful. Anyway, we landed on waiting until after the first of the year before she will file.
I will definitely have it looked over by a lawyer before I respond to it. I can't mind read so I shouldn't try, but the fact that she even asked "You still want to wait?" did give me a bit of hope that she may have reservations about it. However, she's still having an A so really it doesn't matter. I definitely let my emotions drive today after getting that text and made some mistakes. Back to square one I guess.
I've made it clear that if she wants a D she has to file and do all the work. Of course at some point I will have to look it over, but you're right, that can be after I've been served.
Me: 35 W: 32 MR: 2y T: 3.5y SS11 BD: 11/3/16 EA: 10/26/16 PA: 11/11/16 W asks for S/D & ILYBINILWY 11/13/16 Status: I moved out 11/19/16, GAL I filed for D: 12/14/16 D-day: 3/10/17