I, too, am so thrilled at the progress that you and your H have made!!
I haven't been posting to you much, which I apologize for (my life isn't always "peachy", and sometimes stressful), but I think that what you have been doing is just incredible!!!
So much personal growth, and so many forward strides in your relationship! Who would have ever thought that would be possible?? Well, beside those of us here who love you!!
You're doing just great, and you're just exactly where you're supposed to be right now. (I had a counselor that used to tell me that all the time, I hated when he said that, but now can see what he was talking about!)
DO come back and let us know how you're doing, what you've learned, how you've been, etc. You're quite welcome in the KLA forum, we'll be going with it for awhile, so join in when you can. If not now, we'll be doing another soon, I'm sure!
Keep in touch when you can, my dear, and BIG HUGS to you!!!
JJ
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