I'm thinking about moving over to KLA but keeping a thread here when I get back from my 20 days in jail. What do folks think?
I would post on both. Maybe if there isn't much to post, I can start to post on others' threads again...and help out ...I've been so busy focusing on me and my sitch that I haven't posted much anywhere but my own thread.
I, too, am so thrilled at the progress that you and your H have made!!
I haven't been posting to you much, which I apologize for (my life isn't always "peachy", and sometimes stressful), but I think that what you have been doing is just incredible!!!
So much personal growth, and so many forward strides in your relationship! Who would have ever thought that would be possible?? Well, beside those of us here who love you!!
You're doing just great, and you're just exactly where you're supposed to be right now. (I had a counselor that used to tell me that all the time, I hated when he said that, but now can see what he was talking about!)
DO come back and let us know how you're doing, what you've learned, how you've been, etc. You're quite welcome in the KLA forum, we'll be going with it for awhile, so join in when you can. If not now, we'll be doing another soon, I'm sure!
Keep in touch when you can, my dear, and BIG HUGS to you!!!
JJ
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I think you should start a new thread upon your return because it'll be a really FRESH start in your life, as you said, with all the wreckage of your life left behind.
You are most definitely NOT the woman you were when you came to this board last summer. Today you are a wonderful example of the renewal of oneself when one decides to accept full responsibility for themself and their life.
I, like your other DB friends have watched you evolve into a better, more mature and beautiful YOU.
I'm so proud of what you've accomplished. You give a great deal of credit to your Lord, however, although he no doubt holds your hand through your transition, he's only there to support you, YOU did all the work.
I am going out for a Mother's Day brunch with a gal pal. H is at work, s is at dad's.
It's a foggy day, but it's my last full day home so I am going to go out and enjoy it. Finished an article last night.
Hugs to all, and prayers will be ongoing, so just know that you are all in my heart and on my mind....I will start that new thread in about three weeks....I will sure miss you all!
I am really going to miss posting here. I do read the other sitches, too, and am going to be thinking of lots of folks. Hopefully, when I get back I can start my new thread along with my new improved life! Hugs and prayers to all...God is good, Akgal
We'll hear from you when you get back. Can you take a note pad with you? This has "article" written all over it. Or would be a great start to kid's book about taking responsibility for your actions. Always looking for a positive side for every situation - corny aren't I?
Anyway, it may help to pass the time too. But it will fly by. You'll be back here before you know it. We'll keep your spot for you!
Will say some prayers for you!
totite
"Accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative..."
They did not have my paperwork sent from the arresting court to the sentencing court. So....now I go back to court on June 7th! What a drag. What a drag.
Sure there is a reason for this - you are meant to be here on the BB with us!
Maybe your paperwork will get lost between the courts and your three weeks will disappear too. LOL!
Did you ever hear anything about the possibility of doing community service (lecturing, video, etc)? Just curious.
Well, if you aren't scheduled for court until the 7th of June, then you will have another week or so with your H right? Then hey - kick back, DB and enjoy! Woohoooo!
Have a great day!
(BTW, I posted to you earlier but the whole BB froze on me, I lost your post, couldn't go anywhere and ended up leaving for a while!)
totite
"Accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative..."