I am also going to check out the Divorce Remedy from the public library today. Not sure if that will help since my W has expressed no feelings for me. She also expressed she didnt think she would ever trust me or be physical with me again.
I have the book and while it is full of great advice, it didn't work in my case for reasons explained elsewhere.
This whole thing of trusting and being physical with you thing is screaming OM to me. Is she referring to when you dated? Seems like she is trying to use it to justify her affair, to me. Something isn't right about that and it just seems like the typical guilt/justification thing. I may be wrong, though.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
