Separation and divorce has been talked about alot in my household recently. I still love her and don't feel like its my responsibility for pay and file for separation. Here in my state you must physically be separated for 1 year before divorce occurs. I have told my WW that separation means divorce, there is no coming back for me. And for her to go ahead and file papers and i would support it even though I do not want it. Thats when she gets confused with no answers.