I don't mind if you leave the postings here. Like you say they increase my post count.
I'm not sure if I mentioned that D is actually H SD but he has raised her with me since she was four, to her he is her dad.
It was GS first birthday yesterday and H hasn't seen him since he was three months. Looking back he actively did not bond with him.
He was very close to GD and was Papa to her. He hasn't seen her since March either. A card has just come through the mail for GS from him. I had already included Papa on my card.
This card was just signed H. No Grand Son on the cover......no Papa.
D is heartbroken. She feels he has regected the children and especially GS. I've tried to explain that to sign it Papa would bring reality back which he doesn't want right now.
Am I correct? It's really upset us. She would have rathered he not send a card at all.
