I am so sorry that you are sick and feeling vulnerable. I hope you feel better in all ways soon, and that this will soon be over.
My reaction to your post is that I would like to contact some friendly thugs and have them warn the G off. Alternatively, take out an ad in the paper and do a clever announcement that will keep him away from you.
I don't have much anger left in me, I understand that you don't. I'm weaker than I have ever been. But it has allowed me to become more humble, and I appreciate that. It is a good thing for my new R and for myself.
(((((((V)))))))
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17
Alternatively, take out an ad in the paper and do a clever announcement that will keep him away from you. 