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[Painter]

Thanks, everyone!

A quick update - I'm struggling with what to do in relation to the D. WH wants me to sign the eze-D paperwork and get it done. I think. It could be that he's trusting me to hold it up so he doesn't have to marry OW, lol.

I promised him earlier that I would set the record straight and reply with an at-fault D filing. I didn't want to sign a lie - that we were in agreement and it was nobody's fault. At this point, I'm moving on with my life and I can't decide if it's worth it or not. I'll be talking to my IC about it again this week, and also a L. I like to keep my promises, but I also want to look out for my own peace of mind.

There is nothing to settle in this step of the process unless I dispute the agreement we already have in place. I was duped, but the law may not consider it so.

My life is good - although I am struggling with feelings of vulnerability in moving forward. It was easier when it was just me and my GAL. I'm terrified of being cheated on and left. I'm leery of feeling dependent on a R or a new partner.

I'm probably a little cryptic. It's for legal reasons. Hopefully I will be able to be more open at some point.