Feeling good but mostly its because of the anger has pulled me out of my slump. I was wallowing in self pity the past week.

Leaving tomorrow for 3 week long getaway in the UK with S5. Looking forward to it and hoping i find some peace and happiness through the holidays.

Oh here is another wrench by her. She's not interested in reconciling but doesn't mind if we try dating but re-iterates she doesn't know if she can find any feelings for me.

6 months ago i would have jumped at this, now im actually a little insulted to be honest. Is it just me? but if shes not willing to fight for her husband we feel we should just pull the trigger and divorce. I havnt responded to her.

Do i need some 2x4s?

Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs
23Mar16-BD
9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss.
27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM.
14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation.
24May17-Divorced.