Hanging on and hoping for the best

[BillyHo]

That's the thing. I don't look at her as the enemy. While I don't agree with what she is doing, I understand that she is confused and in a fog. I am doing my best to detach. She isn't mean or rude to me. We communicate with each other now with no problems at all. I think W views this as something she has to experience and she is dead set on doing it. She said she has never been on her own and I guess she has to see what it's like. Whatever W, or I decide to do, in the end. I will be able to look back and say I acted in a loving caring way that will show my boys how you treat someone you care about.

As W slowly but surely gets closer and closer to being out I have some questions going forward. I will have the boys overnight 2 nights during weekdays. W says she will come to my house to get them off to school the mornings after they stay the night with me( I go to work at 4am) is this a good idea or should I make other arrangements if possible. I am unclear on if I should keep as much distance as possible or what. I just don't know what the best course of action is during a separation.